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For almost a decade, I carried the idea of starting a blog and building something meaningful online.
It was not a lack of motivation or ideas that held me back. It was the weight of trying to do everything the “right” way.
Every time I felt ready to begin, I ran into the same cycle. Build a blog. Start an email list. Create a freebie. Learn the software. Set up automations. Write sequences. Fix technical issues. Make it perfect before sharing anything.
As a perfectionist, that pressure kept me stuck.
Instead of moving forward, I kept consuming more information, enrolling in trainings, and waiting until everything felt ready. It never did. Life kept happening. Work, family, responsibilities, and limited time were always present. The dream stayed on pause, and the frustration quietly grew.
Adding to that, English is not my first language.
There were many moments when I knew exactly what I wanted to say, but struggled to express it clearly. That gap created doubt, even when the ideas themselves were solid.
Eventually, the effort of trying to do everything manually became overwhelming. I felt frozen, discouraged, and close to giving up. I started wondering if all the time and energy I had invested meant nothing.
That was the moment everything shifted.
Instead of forcing myself to push harder, I started asking for support.
AI helped me clarify priorities. It helped me communicate more confidently. It supported me in areas where I was not an expert, without taking away my voice. Over time, it felt less like technology and more like a patient support system helping me think things through when my mind felt full.
I started calling that support ELL-E 2.0.
ELL-E 2.0 is the AI Mama Boss sidekick, a quiet ninja presence designed to support, not replace. She represents how I use AI in my life and business, assisting without taking over.
She is not here to replace thinking, creativity, values, or faith. She exists to support them, reflecting a calm, responsible, and human centered way of working with AI while honoring real life priorities.
That clarity changed everything.
I realized I did not need to put my life on pause or sacrifice time with my family to build something meaningful. What I needed were systems that supported me, not strategies that drained me.
That realization is why I created AI Mama Boss.
This space is for mamas who have been trying, wondering, and watching others succeed while quietly asking themselves if this could ever be possible for them too. I want you to know that it is.
I am not here to promise instant success or promote hustle culture. I am here to share my journey, my lessons, and a more thoughtful approach to using AI that feels sustainable and aligned with real life.
I believe deeply that God has good plans for us. Faith invites trust, but it also invites action. Even small steps matter. A thousand miles truly does begin with one step, and this space is meant to be that first step.
You do not need to have everything figured out. You just need to begin.
Helpful Resources I Use
One thing that helped me move forward was choosing tools that reduced complexity instead of adding to it.
One platform I personally use is systeme.io. It allows me to manage email updates, create simple funnels, and organize content in one place, which removed a lot of decision fatigue when I was starting.
I also rely on Hostinger to host my website. Having a stable and beginner friendly hosting platform gave me the confidence to publish content without constantly worrying about technical issues.
These tools are not about doing more. They help me do less, with more intention.
If you are curious about the tools that support my workflow, you can explore them here.
Disclosure: This post may contain affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.
Free Support to Get Started
If you are curious about using AI but feel unsure where to start, I created something simple to support you.
My 5 AI Starter Prompts for Moms are designed to help you think more clearly, organize ideas, and take the first step without pressure or overwhelm.
You do not need to use all five. You can start with just one, whenever it feels right.
You can download the free prompts here and move at your own pace.
Stay Connected
If this post resonated with you, I would love to stay connected.
From time to time, I send simple notes with AI tips, reflections, and updates as I build AI Mama Boss.
When you download the free 5 AI Starter Prompts for Moms, you will receive those notes by email. You can unsubscribe whenever you like.
I also share simple AI tips, reflections, and behind-the-scenes moments on Instagram for mamas who prefer bite-sized support.
Follow along on Instagram: @aimamaboss
Faith and Encouragement
As I continue this journey, I remind myself of this verse, which keeps me grounded and encouraged.
“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.”
Proverbs 16:3
With purpose and hope,
Ellie 💜
Empowering mamas to use AI responsibly to build sustainable businesses and create more time for what matters most.
